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    I Hate Women & Girls in Tech

    Not really, but I do hate the groups of women that feel the need to segregate themselves even more by creating exclusive "Just For Women" events and organizations. Browsing through my Twitter feed, I constantly see events with names like Girls in Tech, Women in Tech, Women in Business, Women in blah blah blah. Why do women feel the need to create separate events? Is this not a sexist thing to do?

    If someone were to start a group called Men in Tech, they would instantly be labeled as sexist. After labeling this group as sexist, blog posts and tweets would immediately flood the Internet. Is this fair? Why should women be able to create groups and events for women?

    Taken from a website called Women Who Tech "We provide a supportive network for the vibrant and thriving community of women in technology professions by giving women an open platform to share their talents, experiences, and insights." Why do you need to give women an open platform? They always have an open platform in the real world! Why is there the need for a separate group to only point out the fact that you are not a man?

    Taken from a site called Girls in Tech "Girls in Tech is a social network enterprise focused on the engagement, education and empowerment of like-minded, professional, intelligent and influential women in technology." What exactly are you trying to empower women with? These events seem to say that women need to be empowered in order to succeed.

    Don't get me wrong. I have been segregated against because of my dress and painted nails. I have had men label me as ignorant or dumb, solely for the fact that I was a women. While yes, this is unfair, I don't believe the solution to this problem is to create separate groups for those who had their feelings hurt at a regular tech or business event. Instead of making events for women to attend, women should be creating tech events for the entire tech or business field - not for a group of women to sit around saying "we are just as good as the men" - they should be out proving it.

    While this blog post will probably offend someĀ  I am still posting it anyways. I am proud of being a women. I like my makeup. I like my dresses, shoes, and purses. I don't feel that because of this, I should have to attend events with names like Women in _______.

    Could someone please enlighten me on why these events are needed? - Maybe I'm missing something.

    • 15 July 2010
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    almost 2 years ago EvilPundit (Twitter) responded:
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    In all fairness , some of these events/orgs are co-ed. Not all of them though.
    almost 2 years ago PimpIA (Twitter) responded:
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    Great post, Arianna! Although I'm not a woman, I've wondered about this too. I'd rather just see women doing awesome work and holding leadership positions (as many already do)! Maybe change happening from within is just more compelling to me. I'm sure it's difficult, but I imagine it's hard for anyone to undervalue someone who is doing awesome work no matter what their gender, etc.

    I do think it's important to have a support network of trusted and like-minded individuals (especially when you've got to work against any kind of resistance.) But I fear that actively separating and "empowering" any group in a public way just makes it look like that group is trying to convince themselves of something. It's not a novel idea anymore. At the very least, I hope these events describe/teach/encourage ways women can work around or overcome the issues they face in the workplace -- if they are just "rah" "rah" sessions then I'm not sure what they accomplish. :-P

    almost 2 years ago ramiro berrelleza responded:
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    Great post! (as usual)

    I've always felt unease with the whole Women in * movement. However, I do believe there's a certain need for this, specially in places were women are still fighting against the prejudices of more conservative societies.

    Even in the 21st century, there are still places (in the US, or in the world), were a young girl will not choose to pursue her field of interest simply because that's a 'Man's job' (Engineering, science, politics and the military come to my mind, but I'm sure there are lots more). And it's there where I think this sort of movement becomes helpful, as a way to provide women in that position with positive role models, to help them realize that they shouldn't feel limited by her gender to pursue any career or path they desire.

    I agree that at the end, true success will come when we stop considering women in business (or in any of the other male-dominant fields) as something to notice, but instead it becomes common nature in every field (Like right now no one will look twice when seeing a female doctor, or teacher). However, there's still a long road ahead before we get there.

    The same case can also be applied today to any other minority or ethnicity. It's not the ideal, but it's a necessary step into that way.

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